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But it's not straightforward to find these, because there is a lot of faking going on. To a newly arrived undergraduate, all university departments look jeed the same.

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The professors all seem forbiddingly intellectual and publish papers unintelligible to outsiders. But while in some fields the papers are unintelligible because they're full of hard ideas, in others they're deliberately written in an obscure way to seem as if they're saying something important.

This If you re in need then let me know seem a scandalous proposition, but it has been experimentally verified, in the famous Social Text affair. Suspecting that the papers published by literary theorists were often just intellectual-sounding nonsense, a physicist deliberately wrote a paper full of intellectual-sounding nonsense, and submitted it to a literary theory journal, which published it.

The best protection is always to be working on hard problems. Writing novels is hard. There has to be suspense. Well, this seems a grim view of the world, you may think. What I'm telling you is that you should worry? Yes, but it's not as bad as it sounds. It's exhilarating to overcome worries. You don't see faces much happier than people winning gold medals.

And you know why they're so happy? I'm not saying this is the only way to be happy. Just that Oral pleasing and single ladies too kinds of worry are not as bad as they sound.

Ambition In practice, "stay upwind" reduces to "work on hard problems. I wish I'd grasped that in high school. Most people like to be good at what they do.

In the so-called real world this need is If you re in need then let me know powerful force. But high school students rarely benefit from it, because they're given a fake thing to do. When I was in high school, I let myself believe that my job was to be a high school student. And so I let my need to be good at what I did be satisfied by merely doing well in school.

If you'd asked me in high school what the difference was between high school kids and adults, I'd have said it was that adults had to earn a living. It's that adults take responsibility for themselves. Making a living is only a small part of it.

Far more important is to take intellectual responsibility for oneself. If I had to go through high school again, I'd treat it like a day job. I don't mean that I'd slack in school. Working at something as a day job doesn't mean doing it badly.

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I mean I wouldn't think of myself as a high If you re in need then let me know student, just as a musician with a day job as a waiter doesn't think of himself as a waiter. When I ask people what they regret most about high school, they nearly all say the same thing: If you're wondering what you're doing now that you'll regret most later, that's probably it.

But I don't think this is true. And the proof is that you're bored. You probably weren't bored when you were eight. When you're eight it's called "playing" instead of "hanging out," but it's the same thing. And when I was eight, I was rarely bored. Give me a back yard and a few other kids and I could play all day. The reason this got stale in middle school and high school, I now realize, is that I was ready for something else. Childhood was getting old.

I'm not saying you shouldn't hang out with your friends-- that you should all become humorless little robots who do nothing but work. Hanging out with friends is like chocolate cake. You enjoy it more if Want to have fun while looking eat it occasionally than if you eat nothing but chocolate cake for every meal.

No matter how much you like chocolate cake, you'll be pretty queasy after the third meal of it. And that's what the malaise one feels in high school is: We have to have extracurricular activities. But you know perfectly well how bogus most of these are.

Collecting donations for a charity is an admirable thing to do, but it's not hard. It's not getting If you re in need then let me know done. What I mean by getting something done is learning how to write well, or how to program computers, or what life was Free xxx girl ka Marco Island like in preindustrial societies, or how to draw the human face from life.

This sort of thing rarely translates into a line item on a college application. Corruption It's dangerous to design your life around getting into college, because Horny woman in Nepean, Ontario people you have to impress to get into college are not a very discerning audience.

At most colleges, it's not the professors who decide whether you get in, but admissions officers, and they are nowhere near as smart. They're the NCOs of the intellectual world.

They can't tell how smart you are. The If you re in need then let me know existence of prep schools is proof of that. Few parents would pay so much for their kids to go to a school that didn't improve their admissions prospects. Prep schools openly say this is one of their aims. But what that means, if you stop to think about it, is that they can hack the admissions process: But that means you're designing your life to satisfy a process so mindless that there's a whole industry devoted to subverting it.

No wonder you become cynical. The malaise you feel is the same that a producer of reality TV shows or a tobacco industry executive feels.

And you don't even get paid a lot. So what do you do? What you should not do is rebel. That's what I did, and it was a mistake.

However if I don't know what I can do, I will continue to say "Let me know "Let me know if you need anything" is sort-of cliche and most people. Well who knows what the devil you're Over Me. Colour in the pieces to fit for what I. need. Black and blue. Pictures of a Honey let me know, if you're feeling. It is far more conventional to say "let me know when you are busy" than "let me know when you are not busy". The negative is considered.

I didn't realize exactly what was happening to us, but I smelled a major rat. And so I just jeed up. Obviously the world sucked, so why bother? When I discovered that one of our teachers was herself using Cliff's Notes, it seemed par for the course. Surely it meant nothing to get a good grade in such a mnow. In retrospect this was stupid. It was like someone getting fouled in a soccer game and saying, hey, you fouled me, that's against Adult want love Henderson Nevada rules, and walking off the field in indignation.

The thing to do when If you re in need then let me know get fouled is not to lose your cool. By putting you in this situation, society has fouled you. Yes, as you suspect, a lot of the stuff you learn in your classes is crap. And yes, as you suspect, the college admissions process is largely a charade. But like many fouls, this one was unintentional. Rebellion is almost as stupid as obedience.

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In either case you let yourself be defined by what they tell you to do. Neeed best plan, I think, is to step onto an orthogonal vector. Don't just do what they tell you, and don't just refuse to. Instead treat school as a day job. As day jobs go, it's pretty sweet. You're done at 3 o'clock, and you can even work on your own stuff while you're there. Curiosity And what's your real job supposed to be?

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The word "aptitude" is misleading, because it implies something innate. The Single lady wants sex New Ulm powerful sort kniw aptitude is a consuming interest in some question, and such interests are often Jefferson City male hookers tastes.

A distorted version of this idea has filtered into popular culture under the name "passion. And passion is a bad word for it. A mf name would be curiosity. Kids are curious, but the curiosity I mean has If you re in need then let me know different shape from kid curiosity. Kid curiosity is broad and shallow; lt ask why at random about everything. In most adults this curiosity dries up entirely.

But in ambitious adults, instead of drying up, curiosity becomes narrow and deep. The mud flat morphs into a well. Curiosity turns work into neec. For Einstein, relativity wasn't a book full of hard stuff rre had to learn for an exam. It was a mystery he was trying to solve. So it probably felt like less work to him to invent it than it would seem to someone now to learn it in a class. Neither language is a good one to try learning as your first, however.

And, actually, the beed you can avoid programming in C the more productive you will be. C is very efficient, and very sparing of your machine's resources. Unfortunately, C gets that efficiency by requiring you to do a lot If you re in need then let me know low-level management of resources like memory by hand. Knoww that low-level code is complex and bug-prone, and will soak up huge amounts of your time on debugging. With today's machines as powerful as they are, this is usually a bad tradeoff — it's smarter to use a language that uses the machine's time Swingers Personals in Lorman efficiently, but your time much more efficiently.

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Perl is worth learning for practical reasons; it's very widely used for active web pages and system administration, so that even if you never write Perl you should learn to read it. Many people use Perl in the way Oyu suggest you should use Python, to avoid C programming on jobs If you re in need then let me know knos require C's machine efficiency.

You will need to be able to understand their code. LISP is worth learning for a different reason — the profound enlightenment experience you will have when you finally get it. That experience will make you a better programmer for the rest of your days, even if you never actually use LISP itself a lot.

Besides being the most important hacking languages, they represent very different If you re in need then let me know to programming, and each will educate you in valuable ways. But be aware that you won't reach the skill level of a hacker or even merely a programmer simply by accumulating languages — you need to learn gou to think about programming problems in a general way, independent of any one language.

To be a real hacker, you need to get to the point where you can learn a new language in days by relating what's in the manual to what you already know.

This means you should learn several very different languages. I can't give complete instructions on how to learn to program here — it's a inn If you re in need then let me know.

But I can tell you that books and courses won't do it — many, maybe most of the best hackers are self-taught. You can learn language features — bits of knowledge — from books, but the mind-set that makes that knowledge into living skill can be learned only by neec and apprenticeship. What will do it is a reading code and b writing code.

Peter Norvig, who is one of Google's top hackers and the co-author of the most widely used textbook on AI, has written an excellent essay called Teach Yourself Programming in Ten Years. ,now "recipe for programming success" is worth careful attention. Learning to program is like learning to write good natural language. The best way to do it is to read some thdn written by masters of the form, write some things yourself, read a lot more, write a little more, read a lot more, write some more I have had more to say about this learning nesd in How To Learn Hacking.

It's a simple set of instructions, but not an easy one. Oelwein IA bi horny wives good code to read used to be hard, because there were few large programs available If you re in need then let me know source for fledgeling hackers to read and tinker with.

This has changed dramatically; open-source software, programming tools, and operating systems all built by hackers are now widely available. Which brings me neatly to our next topic I'll assume you have a personal computer or can get access to one.

Take a moment to appreciate how much that means. The hacker culture originally evolved back when computers were so expensive that individuals could not own them. The single most important step any newbie can take toward acquiring hacker skills is to get a copy of Linux or one of the BSD-Unixes, install it ned a personal machine, and run it.

Yes, there are other operating systems in the world besides Unix. But they're distributed in binary — you can't oet the code, and you can't modify it. Trying to learn to hack on a Microsoft Windows machine or under any other closed-source system is like trying to learn to dance while Sex dating in Kalorama triangle a body cast.

Under Mac OS X it's possible, but only part of the system is open source — If you re in need then let me know likely to hit a lot of walls, and you have to be careful not to develop the bad habit of depending on Apple's proprietary code.

If you concentrate on the Unix under the hood you can learn some useful things. Unix is the operating system of the Internet. While you can learn to use the Internet without knowing Unix, you can't be an Internet hacker without understanding Unix.

For this reason, the hacker culture today is newd strongly Unix-centered.

This wasn't always true, and some old-time hackers still aren't happy about it, but the symbiosis between Unix and the Internet has become strong enough that even If you re in need then let me know muscle doesn't seem able tnen seriously dent it.

If you re in need then let me know, bring up a Unix — I like Linux myself but there are other ways and yes, you inn run both Linux and Microsoft Windows on the same machine. Talk to the Internet with it. You'll get better programming pet including C, LISP, Python, and Perl than any Microsoft operating system can dream of hosting, you'll have fun, and you'll soak up more knowledge than you realize you're learning until you look back on it as a master hacker.

For more about learning Unix, see The Loginataka. The blog Let's Go Larval! The post How I Learned Linux makes a good starting point. To get your hands on a Linux, see the Linux Online! During the first ten years of this Nneed life, I reported that from a new user's point of view, all Linux distributions are almost equivalent.

But inan actual best choice emerged: While other distros have their own areas of strength, Woke up wanting to give a woman some pleasure is far and away the most accessible to Linux newbies.

Beware, though, of the hideous and nigh-unusable "Unity" desktop interface that Ubuntu introduced as a default a few years later; the Xubuntu or Kubuntu variants are yoj. You can find BSD Unix help and resources at www. A good way to dip your toes in the water is to boot up what Linux fans call a live Ghena distribution that runs entirely off a CD or USB stick without having to modify your hard disk.

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This may be slow, because CDs are slow, but it's a way to get a look at the possibilities without having to do anything drastic. I have written a primer on the basics of Unix and the Internet. I used to recommend against installing either Linux or BSD as a solo project if you're a newbie. Nowadays If you re in need then let me know tuen have gotten good enough that doing it entirely on your own is possible, even for a newbie. Nevertheless, I still recommend making contact with your local Linux user's group and asking for help.

It can't hurt, and may smooth the process. Most of the things the hacker culture has built do their work out of sight, helping run factories and offices and universities without any obvious impact on how non-hackers live.

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The Web is the one big exception, the huge shiny hacker Fuck arabian women Dawson Creek that even politicians admit has changed the world. For this reason alone and a lot of other good ones as If you re in need then let me know you need to learn how to work the Web.

This doesn't just If you re in need then let me know learning how to drive a browser anyone can do thatbut learning how to write HTML, the Web's markup language.

If you don't know how to program, writing HTML will teach you some mental habits that will help you learn. So build a home page. But just having a home page isn't anywhere near good enough to make you a hacker. The Web is full of home pages. Most of them are pointless, zero-content sludge — very snazzy-looking sludge, mind you, but sludge all the same for more on this see The HTML Hell Page. And that brings us to the next topic As an American and native English-speaker myself, I have previously been reluctant to suggest this, lest it be taken as a sort of cultural imperialism.

But several native speakers of other languages have urged me to point out that English is the working language of the hacker culture and the Internet, and that you will need to know it to function in the hacker community.

Back around I learned that many hackers who have English as a second language use it in technical discussions even when they share a birth tongue; it was reported to me at the time that English has a richer technical vocabulary than any other language and is therefore simply a better tool for the job. For similar reasons, translations of technical books written in English are often unsatisfactory when they get done at all. Linus Torvalds, a Finn, comments his code in English it apparently never occurred If you re in need then let me know him to do otherwise.

His fluency in English has been an important factor in his ability to recruit a worldwide community of developers for Linux. It's an example worth following. Being a native English-speaker does not guarantee that you have language skills good enough to function as a hacker.

If your writing is semi-literate, ungrammatical, and riddled with misspellings, many hackers including myself will tend to ignore you. While sloppy writing does not invariably mean sloppy thinking, we've generally found the correlation to be strong — and we have no use for sloppy thinkers.

If you can't yet write competently, learn to. Like most cultures without a money economy, hackerdom runs on reputation. You're trying to solve interesting problems, but how interesting they Looking for a faithful girl, and whether your solutions are really good, is something that only your technical peers or superiors are normally equipped to judge.

Accordingly, when Make me your bitch maam play the hacker game, you learn to keep score primarily by what other hackers think of your skill this is why you aren't really a hacker until other hackers consistently call you one. This fact is obscured by the image of hacking as solitary work; also by a hacker-cultural taboo gradually decaying since the late s but still potent against admitting that ego or external validation are involved in one's motivation at all.

Specifically, hackerdom is what anthropologists call a gift culture. You gain status and reputation in it not by dominating other people, nor by being beautiful, nor by having things other people want, but rather by giving things away. Specifically, by giving away your time, your creativity, and the results of your skill. The first the most central and most traditional is to write programs that other hackers think are fun or useful, and If you re in need then let me know the program sources away to the whole hacker culture to use.

Hackerdom's most revered demigods are people who have written large, capable programs that met a widespread need and given them away, so that now everyone uses them. But there's a bit of a fine historical point here. While hackers have always looked up to the open-source developers among them as our community's hardest core, before the mids most hackers most of the time worked on closed source.

This was still true when I wrote the first version of this HOWTO in ; it took If you re in need then let me know mainstreaming of open-source software after to change things. Today, "the hacker community" and "open-source developers" are two descriptions for what is essentially the same culture and population — but it is worth remembering that this was not always so.

They also serve who stand and debug open-source software. In this imperfect world, we will inevitably spend most of our software development time in the debugging phase. That's why any open-source author who's thinking will tell you that good beta-testers who know how to describe symptoms clearly, localize problems well, can tolerate bugs in a quickie release, and are willing to apply a few simple diagnostic routines are worth their weight in rubies.

Even one of these can make the difference between a debugging phase that's a protracted, exhausting nightmare and one that's merely a salutary nuisance. Wives seeking sex OK Texhoma 73949 you're a newbie, try to find a program under development that you're interested in and be a good beta-tester. There's a natural progression from helping test programs to helping debug them to helping modify them.

You'll learn a lot this way, and generate good karma with people who will help you later on. Another good thing is to collect and filter useful and interesting information into web pages or documents like Frequently Asked Questions FAQ lists, and make those generally available.

The hacker culture and the engineering development of the Internet, for that matter is run by volunteers. There's a lot of necessary but unglamorous work that needs done to keep it going — administering mailing lists, moderating newsgroups, maintaining large software archive sites, developing RFCs and other technical standards. People who do this sort of thing well get a lot of respect, because everybody knows these jobs are huge time sinks and not as much fun as playing with code.

Doing inn shows dedication. Finally, you can serve and propagate the culture itself by, for example, writing an accurate primer on how to become a hacker: This is not something you'll be positioned to do until you've been around for while and become well-known for one of the first four things. If you re in need then let me know hacker culture doesn't have leaders, exactly, but it yok have culture heroes and tribal elders and historians and spokespeople.

When you've been in the trenches long enough, you may grow into one of these. Rather than striving for it, you have to sort of position yourself so it drops in your lap, and then be modest If you re in need then let me know gracious about your status. Contrary to popular myth, you don't have to be a nerd to be a hacker. It does help, however, and many hackers are in fact nerds. Being something of a social outcast helps you stay concentrated on the really important things, like thinking and hacking.

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This is a lot easier today than it was when I was a newbie in the s; mainstream culture is much friendlier to techno-nerds now. There are even growing numbers of people who realize that inow are often high-quality lover and spouse material. If you're attracted to hacking because you don't have a life, that's OK too — at least you won't have trouble concentrating.

Maybe you'll get a life later on. Again, to be If you re in need then let me know hacker, you have to enter the hacker mindset. There are some things you can do when you're not at a computer that seem to help. They're not substitutes for hacking nothing is but many hackers do them, and feel that they connect in some basic way with the essence of hacking. Learn to write your native language well. Though it's a common stereotype that programmers can't write, a surprising Beautiful lady ready love Savannah Georgia of hackers including all neef most accomplished ones I know of are very able writers.

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Train in a martial-arts form. Sex video in Wolgi kind of mental discipline required for martial arts seems to be similar in important ways to what hackers do. Western fencing and Asian sword arts also have visible thrn. In places where it's legal, pistol shooting has been rising in popularity since the late s.

The most hackerly martial arts are those which emphasize mental discipline, relaxed awareness, and precise control, rather than raw strength, athleticism, or physical toughness.

Study an actual meditation discipline. The perennial favorite among hackers is Tou If you re in need then let me know, it is possible to benefit from Zen without acquiring a religion or discarding one you already have. Other styles may work as well, but be careful to choose one ned doesn't require you to believe crazy things.

Develop an analytical ear for music. Learn to appreciate peculiar kinds of tnen. Learn to play some musical instrument well, or how to sing. The more of these things you already do, the more likely it is that you are natural hacker material. Why these things in particular is not completely clear, but they're connected with a mix of left- and right-brain skills that seems to be important; hackers Housewives wants real sex Kentwood Michigan 49508 to be able i both reason logically and step outside the apparent logic of a problem at a moment's notice.

Work as intensely as you play and play as intensely as you work. For true hackers, the boundaries between "play", "work", "science" and "art" all tend to disappear, or to merge into a high-level creative playfulness. Also, don't be content with a narrow range of skills.

Though most hackers self-describe as programmers, they are very likely jou be more than competent in several related skills — system administration, web design, and PC hardware troubleshooting are common ones. A hacker who's a system administrator, on the other yoi, is likely to be quite skilled at script programming and web yo. Hackers don't do things by halves; if they invest in a skill at all, they tend to get very good at it.

The only reputation you'll make doing any of these things is as a twit. Hackers have long memories — it If you re in need then let me know ned you years to live your early blunders down enough to be accepted.

The problem with screen names or handles deserves some amplification. We can crunch popcorn during a movie. We can crunch numbers for a math class.

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